Take the high road, if you run into him be pleasant. Be sure to be happier than when you last seem him lol.

Do not leave the place YOU ENJOY! He is doing it because he is curious or regrets his decision. That attitude gives him more reason to realize what a mistake he has made. Keep your head up smile (have some earphones in, mp3 maybe) and most importantly...... keep walking.

It sounds like he was trying to control you during your relationship. Defintely DO NOT let him have control now. Keep walking, keep smiling and when you do see him, be pleasant and say hi but nothing says you have to give him any information about your life. He lost that right to know what is going on with you when he left. Keep walking and never look back!

excellent plan guys....that is exactly what I plan to do!!! Thank you!

Be sure to enjoy the "Dang, I messed up!" look in his eye when you nonchalantly smile, say hi, and walk right on past him.

Sounds like he is wondering if he made the right decision. Perhaps from what he was saying prior he truly thought he would lose you after WLS so he decided to leave you before that could happen. Not rationalizing this but just trying to explain the male mind... Now, he is hearing how much you have lost and how great you feel and he is second-guessing his decision. Well, tough luck for him. You deserve someone that will stay by your side no matter what and not run at the first hint of change. Keep going to your gym, smile and be pleasant and definitely keep the ear buds in. Talk casually but definitely don't hang around long. He will eventually get the message that you are not interested and will get uncomfortable and stop coming to the gym.

You are too good and too sexy for him so act like it. Simply say hello, smile and continue your workout.

Putting all the advice aside......... it sure does feel good though doesn't it? lol..like........ "look at me now"

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Haven't run into him yet. In a way it feels good to have lost this much. In a way it feels weird. I remember this weight being smaller- and not so old. lol I was hoping that I would look really good by the time I ran into him again.

You should comment to your mutual friends that you've begun walking at a different location...maybe he will hear and start going to the other location looking for you, lol.