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Needs vs. Wants

As kids our parents try to teach us need vs want, especially when it comes to things we want them to buy us. But, I think that this applies to every aspect of our life.

 

When it comes to food, preband I was always about what I wanted to eat, not what I needed. Think about it- how often do you say "hey, what do you need to eat" when are are getting ready to cook dinner- you don't, instead you ask "what do you want to eat".

 

I have come to the point where I must ask myself what do I need, not what do I want. Yesterday I wanted a donut, but it wasn't what I needed. I am 32 years old, it's time I grow up and become more about what I need instead of what I want.

 

So what do I need when it comes to intake:

 

Water (my body needs hydration to stay healthy and in balance)

Protein (this is food for my muscles, my heart is a muscle and it needs this)

Veggies and Fruit (balance baby- our digestive system will be the better for these)

Good Carbs (again, balance carbs are energy food, but we need the good ones, not bad)

Good Fats (yes, we do need fat, but the good ones not the artery clogging ones)

 

Like we were taught in school we need a balance. A balanced intake is a healthy one. I am finding that the longer I am on the journey my needs and wants are coming together. I crave the healthy protein, I want the fruit, I would fight you for my water. I have become a spinich aholic- it gets added to much of what I eat- so healthy yet sooo good. The other day I ate some fast food chicken strips- one- it KILLLED my tummy. My body is adjusting to the healthy life and doesn't like the bad stuff anymore- how great is that.

 

I am just 9 months into this journey, I am only 54 lbs down and wish I was more; but boy do I look forward to continuing this journey. It's not the diets of the past, this one is evolving and making me better as I go. It's not one I want to jump off of and go back to old ways.

 

So, I am now looking at what my body needs and I will endulge my wants in my sexy new clothes my healthy body needs!! :)

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Spaness2012

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Nice post! I never really dissected the change in my brain but that is exactley what is happening to me as well. The other day I had a fruit smoothie for breakfast (this was only because I had zero time to cook protein) but when I got to lunch....I was not only famished....I actually said to myself, "oh boy...I need some protein". Not even sure when that switch happened.

Thanks for making me aware of the change! Yay us!

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