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Goals

From the get go I have set goals for myself. The first few months I was knocking them out in what seemed like a week or so, now things have slowed; dramatically.

 

To begin with I was just wanted to get to the lower 10 lb zone. So starting at the 244 mark, 230's came and went quick, then the 220's bam shattered that, 210 slow but got it, below 200 slower but reached it. Now in the 190's and have been in this zone since early Dec. Yesterday I was at 192.8, so it is moving, but sssslllloooowwwllllyyy!!!

 

While I am not giving up, I do get frustrated and worried. Yes, I know I have a calorie deficit each day, yes I am walking more, yes I am only eating my alotted amount, yes I am getting in my protein, yes I am getting in my water; but my weight just isn't moving like before.

 

To begin with my goals were weight based, now I am having to change my goals as realated to other things in order to make myself feel like I am moving forward. These are goals like- walk at the least 6000 steps a day on the weekends 8000. These goals I can reach and it makes me feel good when I reach one. However, I still wish that I could reach my weight loss goals in a more timely fashion.

 

52 lbs in 8 months - 52 lbs is a lot, but over 8 months that is only 6.5 lbs a month. While I know that it is normal to lose only 1-2 lbs a week so the average is more like 4-8 lbs a month so I am in the middle.

 

My final goal is 140, I use to think oh, I will hit that in a year- now I am not sure when I will hit it- maybe 3 years. I have just had to stop looking long term and start looking at the day- what mountain can I tackle today?

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Domika03

Gastric Sleeve Patients

We have a lot alike. I started out at 245 & am now at 184 I was banded 7 months ago. I've been playing around with this weight for about a month & it does get frustrating.

But, if you think about it, you've lost almost 55 pounds! Whoa! That's actually a lot. I'm sure you can see & feel it in your clothes. Remember where you started at, and how you felt.

Look at you now! It's a journey so if it takes a little longer than your original goal, who cares. The point is to keep trying and just take one day at a time. You'll get there! :-)

GoingforGoal

Pre Op

I started at 250, lost 50, got pregnant (woopsie), lost that weight and was 200 again. Here I am 3.5 yrs post-op at 169. After I reach 185 I felt the weight came off slower. I would chalk it up to a lower BMR...we are eating incredibly low calories it's no surprise. So setting new goals is a great approach. Don't focus on the 2 lb /week norm because at this rate it's just not going to happen.

I am disappointed that here I am 81 lbs less than I was when I started and only 24 lbs to my goals, yet I still get flustered like I'm trying to lose 10 lbs pre-op. I wear shorts for goodness sakes, I NEVER wore shorts. Time to just focus on the positives :)

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