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Life is so uncertain....

Friday morning one of my employees was a no call no show.... Missing work is Not completely atypical for this particular guy as he does seem to use his PTO as fast as he earns it...but not to call with a lame excuse is odd. As the morning wore on I could t help but thinking I should call the hospitals or jails.... But I didn't. He is an adult and can pick up a phone. Yesterday I got a call on my cell from an employee pretty close to him... She was worried as she hadn't seen any Facebook posts since Thursday about dinner time. She called a few people....nothing.... She looked up who's in jail online....nothing. So she started calling hospitals. He had been to the ER on Thursday night but was released. Somehow she got hold of his landlord and asked for a wellness check... He was dead in his apartment.

 

The details are sketchy...but we found out he had been mugged at a gas station on Thursday night going out to get cigarettes. Beat up pretty good and left for dead. They took his money, credit cards and iPhone.... Police came and off to the hospital he went. He was released on Friday night.... But had no phone and evidentially was on pain medication and went to sleep so didn't call anyone.... No family or friends or work... Sometime between Friday night and 9 pm on Saturday he died....

 

It's just so sad.... And makes you count your blessings and hug your loved ones a little tighter.... Because life is so uncertain....

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A New New Dawn

Gastric Sleeve Patients

That is very sad. Count your blessings every day!

Maddysgram

LAP-BAND Patients

No one really knows when their numbers up and its terrible to live with "what if's" or " I should haves". This is very sad and I pray they find the ppl who did this to him. But he left a great lesson to all, smile and be polite to strangers in the grocery stores, passing by ,helping you. Hug your family, friends and coworkers and tell them you care. You can never wear out "I love you", "have a good day", "thank you" or "I'm sorry".

((((((((Floridays))))))) Thank you for reminding us about whats important!

CHEZNOEL

Pre Op

So sad... I know you feel badly, but don't take it all non yourself.

dylanmiles23

LAP-BAND Patients

I am very sad to hear this. That is awful. I hope they get the people.

Thats All Folks

LAP-BAND Patients

Oh my gosh, that is simply terrible. I am so incredibly sorry :*(

FLORIDAYS

LAP-BAND Patients

I hope to get more details tomorrow..... Just for closure and so I have something to tell his co workers.... They are going to take it hard. Just a waste of a young ...he was 32... Life over a few bucks....

I know there was nothing I could of done... He was just in the wrong place evidentially at the wrong time... But it's still so tragic. I hate to say but I am thankful he was single leaving behind few... as his parents had passed and he had no wife or children.

destynee1

LAP-BAND Patients

I am soo sorry to hear this. Geez, what is wrong with people, how people can take lives so easily. Prayer's to all :(

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