want more loven

when i lost about 30 lbs i have been more in the mood than my wife . she seems to be in the mood. i have tried eveything from back rubs and candel light nights. i am at wit ends and thought about other women lately. i have not felt like this be for about my wife.

Is your wife overweight? Is she not losing? Have you ignored her for periods of time and now because you feel better and want some lovin' she's not sure how to take it? There's lots of unknown factors here for anyone to give you advice but I will say this... you say you've tried everything.. but have you tried talking to her? Have you tried telling her how beautiful she is to you? How much you desire her, how glad you are she's your wife? With women sex is emotional, not just physical. Foreplay for us is an all day thing - treat her like a queen for a day, see how hot your night gets.

everything on the above comment and remember.....

Men give affection for sex.. women have sex for the affection, maybe just ask her straight out whats going on here/

cheers Chooky