Pre Op nightmares.

every thing has been running smooth, had my referral from my PCM on 4th, all my lab work on the 4th, seminar on the 11th pulmonologist on the 16th, 1st Consult with NP on the 20th, nutritionist on the 20th and then I hit this brick wall called the psychologist. she just kept telling me to lose weight on my own and that i didnt need lapband. well Hello i have tried to lose weight on my own just to gain it all back again and then some, you all know what i mean. but when your talking to someone who is a toothpick and probably never been fat a day in her life what do you say. I am frustrated and just pray that she will not put a halt to this for me. Then she did have to tell me it will take her a while to get the results of this 400 question test. Now really, do they need to know if I like my mother or if i want to be a librarian in order for me to lose weight???? Only other thing now is to see the cardiologist and wait my approval. I have taken so much time off work to attend all these appointments ill just !@#$% if it dont get approved. Has any one had this problem? Should i let that worry me??

They love for you to spend money and time! Don't sweat it, really! You'll do great!!!!

I am sorry your psych doc is being so judgemental. That is not her job. I would discuss this with my surgeon if I were you.