I would like to start by saying my husband is very supportive now, but when I found out about lap band 3 years ago he didn't think I should get it, he said I could lose the weight on my own, and that he thought I was taking the easy road, well now he see's how much I went through after surgery and how I still struggle to eat right, it's not a magic surgery, I have to change my life, I still have some day's when I feel like I'm never gonna get to my goal, and I need a support system..

Hang in there. Take a look at some different bandster blogs and, if you think your husband is up to it, share them with him. I'm pretty sure that he'll be amazed by how successful the surgery is and how dramatic the results can be! As a bandster, I have found that to be really inspiring!

Best wishes,

Catherine