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Unexpedted negativity!!

Well today was interesting for me. I had my 2 week incision check up from surgery. Went to the doctor saw another Doctor I have never met, that makes 3 different doctors in 4 visits. I was okay with that and the visit went well. We talked about the incisions which look great and talked about my first fill on Aug 5th. I never brought up the word weight and neither did the doctor. ALmost as an after thought as I am walking out, he says oh by the way "You know that only some people lose weight with the band;" I was so stunned, why would he say that, we werent't even talking about weight loss as I am only 15 days post surgery. Even though I have lost 20 pounds so far. It really surprised me because before the surgery it is oh you will do so well with this. We have had so many successful patients this will really help you. etc etc. Of couse now that I have had the surgery and they got paid the 23,800 dollars it is oh only some people are successful. I have been so bothered all day about this. I have only 15 days in on this journey and being told only some lose weight. Give me a break and 6 more months is what I wanted to say.

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Restless, I have near hero worship of my doc. I ADORE him and he has been fantastic to work with.

He too tells me how great I've done and that he's super pleased with my progress. He said he considers me "at goal", but I keep fighting to get to my ideal weight.

As for the docs comments, it does kind of sound like a backwards compliment. After all 20 pounds is VERY good for your stage of the game. Good work and keep it up!!

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