Ive been a member since November.. and i'm happy to say.. I'm getting banded on the 19th of Jan. Have alot of nerves.. not about surgery.. about afterwards...i dont have my hubbys support in this... so its even harder on my mental state. So I look forward to reading as I have been the past few months and posting on my process. Good Luck to all & to me.

Michelle

Hi Bronxie......it's tough to have to do this without spousal support. Good thing you can always turn to us online! Good luck, Bronxie!

Is he against it because he's worried about your health? Or for a less palatable reason? If it's your health, I can think of some stuff that might help. If it's for some other reason, well, then just don't let him hold you down! :thumbup:

Is he against it because he's worried about your health? Or for a less palatable reason? If it's your health, I can think of some stuff that might help. If it's for some other reason, well, then just don't let him hold you down! :thumbup:

Monkey, quit following me around, LOL!!

J/K

Monkey, quit following me around, LOL!!

J/K

LOL I AM A Restless Monkey! :thumbup:

I was thinking "Darn...Plain beat me AGAIN" (evil laughter followed) LOL

Hi Bronxie......it's tough to have to do this without spousal support. Good thing you can always turn to us online! Good luck, Bronxie!

Thank You Plainy... hope you dont mine the nick/name:biggrin:

Is he against it because he's worried about your health? Or for a less palatable reason? If it's your health, I can think of some stuff that might help. If it's for some other reason, well, then just don't let him hold you down! :thumbup:

Hi Monk.. He feels i should be able to do this on my own..and that I'm just looking for an easy way out. He is not very openminded on alot of things.. and we hardly agree on anything... and before you ask.. all i can say i was Young and Dumb... hahaha. I also think because i didnt need or ask his "approval" on this.. is why hes giving me a hard time.

I wont let him hold me down thats for sure.

LOL I AM A Restless Monkey!

I was thinking "Darn...Plain beat me AGAIN" (evil laughter followed) LOL

Bwa-ha-haha.....my plan is working!

Thank You Plainy... hope you dont mine the nick/name:biggrin:

Nope, you can call me whatever you want to......and it'll probably still be nicer than what most on here call me! :thumbup:

i like to follow u to plain to see what you tell the newbies

i dont want you giving away our secret cheetos diet...

disclaimer

do not eat cheetos

welcome to lbt

my bf is a ass was against surgery from the start..but whatever its done now and i used my savings to pay for it ...

Best of luck to you Michelle! Hopefully your hubby will come around and be more supportive, but you can do this. Let us know how your surgery goes.

I have no regrets. I love my band! :thumbup: