I am almost 45, 230 pounds BMI is 35.5. I have Thyroid, pcod w/ insulin resistance, very high triglicerides and possible sleep apnea. Sleep study is his weekend. My Dr. feels lap band surgery is probably my best option. I am nervous to say the least not onyabout the surery but what it will mean for me. I haven't told many people because I am so embarrassed that even wih al these health risks I still can't manage to control myself enough to loose enough weight to be healthy.

I have 4 childen 21 18, 5 & 1,they still need me. My mother died at 61 of a sudden heart attack. So, am willing to do whatever I need to so that I can be healthier.

I am in VT and have referred, gotten my packet. I need to fill out the paper work ( what are the rght answers?) and track food for 3 days.

CantWaitToGetFit

Hi. You sound a lot like me. I'm 45, my bmi is 35. My ins approved the lapband since I have mild sleep apnea. They don't seem concerned about my very high triglycerides, but I am. The only person I've told is my husband, who would support me whatever I do. I haven't told my 3 kids ages 16, 13, 10. I am also very nervous about this decision... I've gone back and forth since I first started the process. I wish I had a crystal ball and could see myself 5 years from now, would I be glad I did it? Will i be slimmer, healthier and happier? How much does it change your life? take care, :biggrin: