Just wondering how long it took before you felt up for it?

about 6 days. maybe do a search here, there was just a thread about sex.

About a week, with modifications. Your port sight is sore for a while so gentleness is required. The standard positions won't work for a while.

I might be feeling kinda up for it now (9 days post-surgery) but I gotta tell ya, when my husband looked at me the other night and said, "Hey, I've never seen staples in somebody before. Cool!" it was a cold shower.

sundevil - that's hilarious, though maybe you don't think so.

i'm 5 days post op, and i'm thinking sex would be ok now, as long as i was on top. but i've felt really good since my surgery and don't have any real pain from my cuts. i think it just depends on how quickly you recover, and how much you want to have sex.

i was the one who started the last sex thread, and i was hearing numbers closer to a month, so it really just depends on the person. good luck.

Banded April3rd. I did it 5 days out. All was fine.....being very careful and slow with things. Then 2 nights ago he decided to try and put my legs in places I now know should not be for a while. I jerked up in great pain saying that was not gonna work....duh! I am so sore and tender in my port arrea that it isnt funny. Its scary actually. Needless to say the "shop" has closed down till my belly feels better. My advice to all is to be really slow in your movements.

Ew.

Anyway... How about: when I get married!

Ew.

Anyway... How about: when I get married!

So funny! (and good girl!)

I'm 12 days out, and he hasn't DARED (he's afraid I'll bite his head off, I think). My guess is in the next day or so, though.

I did it 2 days after... Looks like I have the record.

Did not mean to offend or gross out anyone. Just letting you know to be very careful with yourself til your completly healed! And yes.......wait til your married *hearts*! My DH and I are working on our 10th year together and the whole "ew" thing got us four beautiful kids! Good luck all!

Did not mean to offend or gross out anyone. Just letting you know to be very careful with yourself til your completly healed! And yes.......wait til your married *hearts*! My DH and I are working on our 10th year together and the whole "ew" thing got us four beautiful kids! Good luck all!

dont worry about hearts ... she was just looking for a reaction ...