woman....... If you are past your post op for 2 months do you still crave sex.... or your still having issues like not interested ....

Just curious if anyone is going thru this or am i jus goin nuts

1 month post-op and no interest what so ever.

1 month post-op and no interest what so ever.

oh my goodness me too...idk if im traumatized all the things i been thru or maybe its da major hormones change ...but i have noooo urge to do nothing...
im a bit scared cuz my husband keeps pushing rhe subject i keep saying no...or makin up excuses??‍♀️

I guess this is a good time to embrace being single, lol. There's no one else to take into consideration, in regards to how the surgery may impact them and their needs. This is already a very private matter and enough for me to navigate without another's expectations and needs.

I wish those who are married and part of a couple understanding, communication, support and patience from your significant other.

I’m as interested ( or not) as I was preop?

Just now, elcee said:

I’m as interested ( or not) as I was preop?

Lol, how long as was your wls?

Band 2009, band to bypass revision Jan 2019

Lol, how long as was your wls?

2 months

Maybe you could explain to your husband that you are too nervous after all you have been through. Ask him to be patient with you. He should understand that I would think.

Maybe you could explain to your husband that you are too nervous after all you have been through. Ask him to be patient with you. He should understand that I would think.

ty[emoji173][emoji106] i will try that

21 hours ago, Emma809 said:

oh my goodness me too...idk if im traumatized all the things i been thru or maybe its da major hormones change ...but i have noooo urge to do nothing...
im a bit scared cuz my husband keeps pushing rhe subject i keep saying no...or makin up excuses??‍♀️

I'm sorry, I hope all goes back to normal soon. My husband had surgery same time last year. I think that's why he's being so understanding this time. lol, my goodness, I was prepared this time around for all these changes.