WHEN is the right time to resume wifely duties in the bedroom after having RNY bypass surgery? Again, MY surgery were done May 15, 2018. Just had a minor endoscopic surgery and found to have 2 ulcers in pouch area ( on staples and inside). Given medications prilosec and carafe for 3 months. Still in recovering mode....Just need to know!

On 06/24/2018 at 13:32, Creekimp13 said:

Tea just shot out my nose.

If you're craving sex...do what you feel up to.

If you're not craving sex....don't bother. You are under no obligation:)

Ditto. Please do it because you want to. And if you’re uncomfortable then perhaps your spouse needs to up their sexual “duties” to help you ease into it. No reason to limit it strictly to intercourse. ;)

On 06/27/2018 at 08:46, Matt Z said:

@BEBJ as stated above, when you feel comfortable, but understand when you get to the "prize", those ab muscles tend to tighten up... so be ready with a pillow or something to press in like you do when sneezing.



I think you are missing a great opportunity here... get your guy to "go downtown" and just lay back and enjoy it! Just tell him you'll get him back later, once you feel up to it LOL

Lol OK this is what I was trying to get across in my message but I went about it more delicately. See the fun we would miss out on if the threads were restricted by gender? Lol

On 6/27/2018 at 11:26 AM, Matt Z said:

OMG that's horrible! You should totally be teaching that old dog some new tricks... or you might want to revoke his playtime... I can't understand why guys can be so selfish...

Ok... who thought this was "Confusing" or "sad"??? I really want to know which of you click sad or confused and why you did that. Honestly, I'm confused as to how this post is either confusing or sad.

2 hours ago, Matt Z said:

Ok... who thought this was "Confusing" or "sad"??? I really want to know which of you click sad or confused and why you did that. Honestly, I'm confused as to how this post is either confusing or sad.

Matt you know I can tell you who it is... I've taught you the trick

Just now, AshAsh1 said:

Matt you know I can tell you who it is... I've taught you the trick

I tried to look on my phone but for whatever reason, it says there are no likes at all on that post that clearly has a sad and confused face. PM me if you'd be so kind please.

12 hours ago, Matt Z said:

Ok... who thought this was "Confusing" or "sad"??? I really want to know which of you click sad or confused and why you did that. Honestly, I'm confused as to how this post is either confusing or sad.

I didn't leave the sad face. But whoever did was probably just sad because the guy wasn't properly performing his husbandly duties.

On 6/23/2018 at 11:45 PM, BEBJ said:

WHEN is the right time to resume wifely duties in the bedroom after having RNY bypass surgery? Again, MY surgery were done May 15, 2018. Just had a minor endoscopic surgery and found to have 2 ulcers in pouch area ( on staples and inside). Given medications prilosec and carafe for 3 months. Still in recovering mode....Just need to know!

The magical answer is when you feel ready enough.