So ever since my surgeon had to drain this abscess on Thursday I’ve been struggling emotionally. Changing the dressing numerous times a day is not helping me with my emotions because I feel like it is not slowing down on the drain, it seems to keep a steady pace. Well I just went to change the dressing just now I felt the area where the abscess is and it is still hard and in my point of view big so I’m worried that come Monday the doctor won’t be removing my drain. If the drain isn’t removed (which I know medically it may need to be there) I feel like I will slip into a deeper depression. This drain is the only thing from keeping me from driving and doing things because I was told I need to rest and walk. Just wanted to put this out there because any encouraging words may help boost my spirits. Thanks in advance

Hang in there sweetie. You are a STRONG person. Don't listen the lies of your mind telling you that you can't handle this. What you are going through is SO hard and ligit scary! But you can and will do this, no matter what comes on Monday. Do you have any friends or family you can call who will take your mind off things and cheer you on and up? Also watch a ton of comedies on Netflix! Watch romcoms that make you laugh! Open your window blinds and let the sunshine in doll. We're here for you. Talk here a LOT!!!

Keep your head up girl. Take it all in stride and know that all this that is happening is part of you getting to a better place. You had your aches and pains and you dealt with them. You may still be hurting but things are moving in a positive direction. You are obviously capable of handling the hard times, your currently dealing with them. It just proves you are stronger than you are giving yourself credit for. Stay strong, even if it doesn't come out on Monday you know you can handle it. Keep up informed and lean on us here for support.

Hang in there sweetie. You are a STRONG person. Don't listen the lies of your mind telling you that you can't handle this. What you are going through is SO hard and ligit scary! But you can and will do this, no matter what comes on Monday. Do you have any friends or family you can call who will take your mind off things and cheer you on and up? Also watch a ton of comedies on Netflix! Watch romcoms that make you laugh! Open your window blinds and let the sunshine in doll. We're here for you. Talk here a LOT!!!

Thank you for the support. I have been calling and texting friends who know about my surgery and my aunt who is a nurse calls me daily to check in. I think what is making this process harder is that my mom does not know about the surgery so I’m unable to reach out to her for support. She’s a very negative person and this surgery was about me so mentally I wanted to have a clear head. I’ve been walking outside in my parking lot and just trying to stay busy

Keep your head up girl. Take it all in stride and know that all this that is happening is part of you getting to a better place. You had your aches and pains and you dealt with them. You may still be hurting but things are moving in a positive direction. You are obviously capable of handling the hard times, your currently dealing with them. It just proves you are stronger than you are giving yourself credit for. Stay strong, even if it doesn't come out on Monday you know you can handle it. Keep up informed and lean on us here for support.

Thank you for your support and words of encouragement. I know this is a hard step that most having the surgery do not have to face so I know by me getting this far, I’ve accomplished a lot but it’s still hard. I just keep praying and hope things work out for the best on Monday.

sending good vibes your way!!! Hoping you recover quickly! Hugs!!! You've got this!

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I am so sorry such a good thing for your future turned sour so quickly. I hope the doctor is able to fix this, from your description this may not be an easily solved problem but I'll pray things are better on Monday. Remember that I'm sending ❤for today tomorrow and always . You are a brave,young lady.?

Don't believe everything you think! You've got this. I hope you are feeling better very soon.

The road to self improvement can be rough!

And weight loss journeys can be the worst!

But you've got this! You made it through the pre-op process and diet. You made it through the surgery. This is an unfortunate set back, but you can handle it. It is the last hurdle to your physical healing. YOU ARE ALMOST THERE!

Even if the drain. Does not come out Monday, it will be ok.

Keep us posted! We are rooting for You! ???

Wow, you are stronger than you think. Still walking and taking care of yourself. I hope it went well for you today.