I am in the process of finding a doctor and I'm about to do my sleep study because my doctor thinks I have sleep apnea. I have been doing all this without my husband knowing so I could have info to bring to him before I dicuss it with him but I not the one to lie to my other half so I told him and now he says he doesn't want me to to it at all. I have been through stuff when I was younger and started to put on weight at 8 hoping the stuff would stop. Now I am 26 and weigh 350. I love my husband and want to be around for a long time and have a long happy life with him. I just don't know if I should go through with it if he doesn't want me to. He is scared about what could happen during surgery.

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Hey just wanted to say I'm 28 I'm 5'2 and my highest weight was 334. I was scared for my life when my husband said I stopped breathing at night and lips were turning blue. I did a sleep study and had severe sleep apnea. It was really hard and emotional to realize how my health was starting to fall. I discussed with my husband about sleeve surgery and he supported me 100%. I told him I wanted to live longer and not be scared anymore. Day of surgery he and I were all over the place lol nerves. Emotions. Everything. We did have the talk about what I wanted if anything bad were to happen during surgery. It's very hard to talk about that stuff and also dealing with major surgery. But, in the end it's your life. Your choice. No one knows I had it done except for my mom, dad, sister, his cousin, and hubby. I'm now 1 week after surgery and I'm down to 296. You can do this if you want it! Just talk it over with your husband:)

We have been talking and we sat down with my grandma and talked more. He is understanding more why I want to do it. He isn't totally convinced yet but he said as long as it's something I want he will support me no matter what he thinks

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I went through a similar experience. A lot of people don't understand the toll excess weight takes on you, both mentally and physically. I didn't have a good support system because nobody agreed with my decision to have surgery. The best approach is to try and explain why you decided on this journey. I found out that doing your research and educating those around you who don't understand, helps a lot. Not only does it give them the facts about bariatric surgery, but it shows them your commitment to a better and healthier lifestyle. This type of surgery isn't for other people, it is for you. It's so you can become healthier and feel better about yourself. I have learned that not everyone will agree with your choice, but those who love you will support you. Hope this helps. Good luck! xx

That's why I downloaded this app to talk to people who have had it done and get their experience. I'm just starting my journey sleep study is tonight I have to be there at 6

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Getting the sleep study is the first step. I was able to get approved for the surgery with my insurance due to my sleep apnea. My husband was apprehensive and, by the grace of God, there were a LOT of steps for me to get to the point where my surgery is scheduled. With state assistant, they require you to attend 12 physical therapy appointments, 12 dietitian appointments, 12 appointments with a bariatric certified counselor and 6 appointments with my primary care doctor. It took a year to get to this point and my husband has been with me through it all. Asking for his help was the biggest thing for me and now, when he gets the munchies for our four kids on Friday nights, he'll pick up my favorite chocolate protein bar and that helps me.

It's fair to think that he's scared for you regarding surgery. My brother keeps telling me I could die during surgery and I just told him that I have a higher chance of dying from getting into a car crash while driving to work than I do dying from this procedure.

That's why I downloaded this app to talk to people who have had it done and get their experience. I'm just starting my journey sleep study is tonight I have to be there at 6

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Yup, I did multiple sleep studies as well. I didn't think I'd like my Cpap but the technology has caught up and the sleep quality is well worth it. If you don't like things on your face like me, opt for the nasal pillows. It may be the beginning of your journey but at least you're taking the right steps to a healthier and longer life. My Sleeve is scheduled for Aug 29th and idk how other insurances are but I didn't have to complete the 6mo diet plan prior to getting approved due to my severe sleep apnea. Wishing you the best on your sleep study! xx

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