It seems in the past two years that I have gone out with about 6 guys. All of them seem a little weird out that I do not eat that much in front of them. I hate to order a big meal, so I don't. And of course, I do not drink another thing they seem to think is weird. Does anyone else have this problem? I usually get through one date and never asked out again. :/

My new girlfriend (if you can call an accomplished 50 year old woman a girl) is a diabetes specialist who sees the results of poor eating on a daily basis. She is very careful about what she eats and understands I can't eat too much either (we seldom eat more than half our food at restaurants). On this issue (and others) we're a good fit.