I'm starting to feel like I wish there was a section on here for tough love and a separate place for coddling and enabling. I want to know when I'm talking to people who are serious and committed to overcoming the pre-WLS behaviors that got them here. I want to avoid those who are comfortable with their excuses and seeking attention in the form of support for their choices.

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@@elisa5150 You'll quickly learn who to go to when you need a no-crap answer and will have to just ignore the rest. There's a lot of filler here, but the good members are worth their weight in gold. I don't know what I'd have done since June without them, and I really think a huge part of my being successful since surgery is knowing I have 24/7 support here if I need it. And I love that you titled this 'Fishgate'

Just saw this.... Good suggestion!!

Drama inducers- to the right

People who are serious- to the left

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Very sensible idea!