I have a little rant about stupid insensitive people who don't know how to keep their mouth shut.

Why do people feel the need to tell you that you are fat...

Its like .... what!!! No way! I never knew i was overweight.. i got my stomach cut off because i thought i was thin! I dieted for years because i was bored! I have spent the last month eating like a mouse because i have nothing better to do!

I had the sleeve 4 weeks ago... and finally it is starting to show physically.. so i was feeling so good about myself.. until BAM!

Some idiot at work felt the need to mention that i was "chubby" and that i am lucky i don't hurt myself.

Mind you i am 5'7" and 216 pounds.. and a size 14... i thought i hold my weight really well.... even my surgeon said i don't look what i weigh...

I just wanted to punch this guy in the face.... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

I think my best experience was this girl at uni who would constantly make comments about my weight... back then i was really big and had no self esteem so i wouldn't say anything because I didn't want to be left out of the group.

I finished uni and didnt keep in contact with her... i had my band and lost all my weight... i ended up bumping into her and she didn't recognise me!

The icing on the cake was she had GAINED so much weight she was literally my initial size!!!

That was the most gratifying situations ive encountered to date. .. i normally wouldn't be satisfied with someone's misfortune. ... but in this instance i was like.... karma is a b!tch and so was she lol

It's you guys' own damned fault. You have your genitalia just hanging around, swinging to and fro--like little punching bags. If you don't want them punched---SUCK THEM UP!!!!

Omg!! Now that you mention it... they really do look like a pair of punching bags!!!

*jogs on the spot humming the rocky theme*

Um... @@KindaFamiliar ?

Run...

@@CHM

Run???

I'm a fat man!!!!

I'm allergic to running!!!

That could be a new marketing campaign for exercise........

@@CHM

Run???

I'm a fat man!!!!

I'm allergic to running!!!

Wrong answer, Brat! You are NO longer "a fat man". So, if running is called for----RUN!!!, young man, run!!!!

sometimes I say to people "surely you did not mean that to sound as rude as it did?" "or do you realize you said that out loud?"

but most of the time those comments are related to someone who has said something truly tasteless in front of my son who has a disability........... you just can't imagine the things that come out of people's mouths.

Wrong answer, Brat! You are NO longer "a fat man". So, if running is called for----RUN!!!, young man, run!!!!

"Brat"? LMAO!

Well now THAT will make him feel about 5 years old...

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sometimes I say to people "surely you did not mean that to sound as rude as it did?" "or do you realize you said that out loud?"

but most of the time those comments are related to someone who has said something truly tasteless in front of my son who has a disability........... you just can't imagine the things that come out of people's mouths.

Actually thats a tactful way of pointing out rudeness....

I just might use that one....

I usually am gobsmacked and say nothing or i fly off the handle.. lol

No medium for me... i am one for extremes lol....

Even with my weight... im either really fat or really skinny hahahaha

I either eat the whole bag or dont have any at all.

All or nothing... i really should learn how to control that lol probably what got me here initially lol

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I am highly skilled at "l'esprit d'escalier" so I like having responses for common situations that come up. feel free to use these ones as your own.

oh wait wait i shoulda told you this in the beginning. when i lost my first like 60lbs some guy said to me "hey!!! i didn't even recognize you! cuz you were pretty fat before, but now you look good!" and granted he said it in spanish and maybe i just translated it harshly but still.......aaaaaaaaaa---hole lol

Me too... like i said in an earlier post.... i came up with so many comebacks AFTER all was said and done....

Now i am just hoping he says something again so i can use some of them... no doubt if he does... my mind will go blank again lol

oh wait wait i shoulda told you this in the beginning. when i lost my first like 60lbs some guy said to me "hey!!! i didn't even recognize you! cuz you were pretty fat before, but now you look good!" and granted he said it in spanish and maybe i just translated it harshly but still.......aaaaaaaaaa---hole lol

OOOoooooh i hate that.

Its like ..wow... what did you think of me before... oh wait... you just told me what you actually thought... grrrrrr

But.. i guess its a good thing for us in the future... we will be healthy, thin and fabulous... with empathy and we will know how to not hurt people..

There is a girl at work who is a big girl.. ... like twice the size of me now... she is only 20 years old... she eats the worst food ever.. in one week she would eat the amount of crappy food that i would eat in a year! She is that bad!

Her stomach apron is down to her knees and sits around a metre away from her desk because of it.

I feel like i should go up to her as a fellow fatty and say something... but i know its not my place.. it breaks my heart because she is so young and a really nice person and she is literally eating herself to death.

Its times like this i wish i didn't have to censor myself.

Wrong answer, Brat! You are NO longer "a fat man". So, if running is called for----RUN!!!, young man, run!!!!

"Brat"? LMAO!

Well now THAT will make him feel about 5 years old...

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"Brat" is a bantering endearment up here in the Catskills---as if talking to a younger brother. I guess if the "Brat" fits...

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I am highly skilled at "l'esprit d'escalier" so I like having responses for common situations that come up. feel free to use these ones as your own.

Thank you for that new term. I have never heard it before. And there's not much I haven't heard of.

For others who don't know what it means, it's "staircase wit" -- a French term used in English for the predicament of thinking of the perfect retort too late.

Hubby and I are loving it! Thanks again.

Mr. Bear, if a post bothers you move on. If you don't like the thread stop reading. Judging and shaming is unwelcome behavior here. I've found that rational people without a sense of humor usually don't like me and that's fine. Go off by yourself and be superior, or as my idol Joan Crawford said at a Pepsi Board meeting, "Don't try to f$$$ with us fella."