When your 25 days away from surgery and the husband keeps going on and on about I can todo it the hard way and if it's really necessary ????

So after leaving to work and both in that tense moment because of the argument he text me as soon as he gets at work and says, " I'm sorry I couldn't say it to your face but truth is I am really scared of this surgery I don't want to even think something can go wrong I need you in my life and for the first time in my life I am scared me and the kids need you" God I felt so bad I was judging him so quickly I think he is scared and was trying to talk me out of it ... Well I told him I totally understand and that it's a safe procedure and not to worry I am in good hands and thanks for him opening to me.

I think this is probably the biggest reason many loved ones object to surgery.

I am so glad he was able to recognize it and share it with you. I bet he will become your biggest cheerleader!

I agree with all you and I felt relieved that he is still supporting me ❤️