Hi. I read a lots of posts on here and elsewhere about people splitting up with their partners once they lose weight....why is this ..... Unhappy before weight loss... New found conference? .... The one not losing weight no longer happy with the thinner person? Xxx

There's a host of great articles out there. Google "bariatric divorce". It happened to me in my first marriage, not that I had WLS, but I did lose 90 pounds. It was a lot of things, but when one loses weight, one changes other things besides a dress size: attitudes, tastes, expectations, patience, and more. Jealous feelings come up.

I have read stats about when a heavy couple meets and marries, then one loses a lot, the divorce rate skyrockets. Like 80% fall apart. If you are worried about it, get to a counselor. Now. Don't wait.