Hi all,

I am new here- my first post, though I have been reading and encouraging myself for about three weeks now.

My family was not supportive of this surgery 3 years ago when I diary discussed it and my boyfriend said he would never agree so I beat find another way. Well since I do consider myself well over age, I am 35 years old and I was really rather informing him than seeking his consent. I have decided to go ahead with surgery .

Surgery is scheduled for 26 August. Never bothered to inform the family , just a friend who will support me during recover . Wish me well everyone. Thanks for sharing!!

Good luck to you and congratulations!!

Thanks GE!

@@del112

I'm also 35 and had the surgery as soon as I qualified. My fiancé was convinced that all I needed to do was hit the gym/ go running/ etc. (please we all know if it was that easy we would do it)

I'm 1 month post op today I'm down 28 lbs. Seriously it has been a breeze for me. (3 days were a little rough)

He is now so supportive there is nothing better than the person that loves you most seeing how much happier you are when you very literally start melting. My advice is to only tell well wishers before. You don't need any negativity. You do need a support system. There is a lot of great info on here and also on Pinterest.

Good luck to you!

Many thanks , indeed . Really needed that. I am flying to NYC for surgery and he thinks I am headed elsewhere on vacation but, after surgery I'll also need to reconsider him as well because he has really managed to stress me. Thanks again... In transit as we speak.