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Need some brutal honesty

Today is the first time I seen these photos side by side. I was going for looking healthy. After looking at these I have questions.

weight 199

Weight 140
Honestly need some feed back. I know my view of myself is still distorted from the weight loss.....Is this my age? can fillers help? I'm a healthy BMI If I gain a few and stay in the healthy BMI category would it help?
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    • pink dahlia
      pink dahlia

      Honestly, I think you look perfect just the way you are ! Im not sure what you are /were expecting face wise after you lost the weight, but I think you look like a healthy , happy 40 something ,

    • *Lexie*
      *Lexie*

      I think you look great in both photos. It may take a few more months up to a year before everything settles and skin snaps back. If that doesn't happen, you can always explore fillers. I am getting

    • _Kate_
      _Kate_

      I have had botox a couple of times, once before my wedding and once before my honeymoon (10 months after the wedding). I haven't had it since but would be happy to do so if needed. You look lovely i

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    I had serious "face dismorphia" for probably the first year I hit goal. It took me awhile to figure it out... then I realized... last time I had seen my face as a thin person i was like 22. No wonder I was shocked at that late 40s face staring back at me!

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