I am considering Gastric Sleeve surgery and just learned how long before I can lift heavy things - 6 weeks. I have twin one-year-olds so the thought of waiting that long to lift them breaks my heart - not to mention, I do most of the caretaking in the family so it's weird to think about not lifting them.

What are some other experiences and any advice? Should I worry about their development during those 6 weeks? I know this surgery will be better for them/us in the long run than any "harm" those 6 weeks of not picking them up can bring. But just nervous.

Thanks

Is there another member of the family that can help you out with them? Do the heavy lifting for you?

Also, you may not be able to lift them, but I'm sure they can climb into your lap for a snuggle? Or have someone put them into your lap so you can hold them. Just because you can't tote them around doesn't mean you can't sit with them, lay in bed with them, play on the floor with them, etc....

If anything, it will help them become a little more independent. That's a good thing for babies on the verge of toddlerhood. I assure you that you will not cause any damage by not being able to pick them up for 6 weeks, lol.

Ah, mothers guilt. What would we all do without it.