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Looking for a friend

Hi everyone im looking for a sleeve buddy to write to about experiences my surgery is july 16 cause no family or friend understand why im doing this...... just looking for positivity

Thanks

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  • Hi Tinab08, I'm having the sleeve done around mid-August. My family does not know and therefore I am also looking for a buddy to share experiences with. I'm new to this forum:)

  • jeanniereenie
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    i am post op but always looking to make new friends! you def create a bond with people who get sleeved, before my surgery I just wanted to talk about it, mourn my food and my body....its hard to exp

  • I just went for my first consultation today. I haven't told anyone, I don't want anyone to talk me out of it. None of my family or friends have weight issues like mine, so I don't feel they'll underst

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I would love to have some buddies! I even posted how I have little support! My mom nor sisters understand (they have never weighed over 150)

I just really got my 3 babies and 3 more iffy' s now.

But imma do this! It helps having this forum! My mind is so consumed with getting this surgery now and it's sad when you have no one to really talk to.

I'm at the end stages of my pre op testing and looking forward to a Sept/Oct date.

Good for you!! I am in the same boat:)
I have found that there is plenty of support here..good luck to you

Hi all. I to need friends. Should we all email each other separate or in group?

Im in Canada with little support.

My email address is leawar0117@hotmail.com

Tina I can totally relate. My mom becomes instantly INFURIATED if the topic of surgery is brought up. I decided to bring a friend/therapist with me because I knew she could provide the positivity I need during the pre and post op. Cheers to new friendships! :)

New to this ... Had my first appointment on the 16th ... And I too am looking for friends that are on this journey! My best friend and brother know and they're very supportive.

I am in southern California, but originally from NY. 8/3 that's the day, getting s nervous, excited, scared, I guess we all get these different emotions. Good luck to everyone, hope we all do well, Sue

I'm from NY but you or anyone can feel free to add me as a friend. If you have any questions please email me

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Tina I can totally relate. My mom becomes instantly INFURIATED if the topic of surgery is brought up. I decided to bring a friend/therapist with me because I knew she could provide the positivity I need during the pre and post op. Cheers to new friendships! :)

Trust me if there is anything ive learned since ive had my surgery is being around positive people it helps u get through tough times im here if at anytime u wanna talk

Tina I can totally relate. My mom becomes instantly INFURIATED if the topic of surgery is brought up. I decided to bring a friend/therapist with me because I knew she could provide the positivity I need during the pre and post op. Cheers to new friendships! :)

my mom doesn't get mad, her new mission is to find me a trainer to " fix my problem"... so frustrating!!!

I am in nj too and would like a buddy or buddies.

I too reside in NJ, I'm here If ever you need to talk

Why Everybody else diet starts 1- 2 weeks before surgery. The hospital I'm going to ask to go on liquid diet 2 days before surgery

Every hospital has different guideline. I was sleeve at NYP on 5/29/15 and did a 2 week diet prior to surgery

Hi all, upper Manhattan here. 7 weeks post op. I was sleeved 5/29/15 at NY Presbyterian.

SW 305

CW 232

Definitely agree yes every hospital and every doctor is different. For example my pre-opt liquid diet was only 24 hours before surgery.

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Hi! I'm new here. I was sleeved June 22nd this yr. I'm in south Florida. New vsg friends are welcome! ????

Im in Canada. But need friends on and off here as I'm not a Facebook er. Booked August 26th at mexico bariatric in Tijuana. Kinda scared now

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