Ladies Topic- Intimacy

[MissLiss 71]

Hello, I know I maybe should post this on another forum but I feel like this one gets more attention.

I am 23 days out and my doc said intimacy is just fine- now worries. The issue I have now is...although I am almost healed up in my midsection I still have bruising and the incisions are still visible.

So my question is this...Has anyone come up with a creative way to cover just that area while still being able to indulge themselves?

My partner is nice and understanding but this is for me..

[Miss Mac 6,261]

Doggie style. He can't see the scars and neither can you.

[KristenVSG2014 1,871]

Sexy way: lingerie that covers

Practical way: Wear a tank top and pull the girls out of the top but keep the tank covering your mid-section.

[MissLiss 71]

Lol- Miss Mac- there is much to said about Doggy style...I guess I was wondering if anyone had found a middle cover that isn't a top cover. I'm blushing - lol

[ShellMilliner 233]

Topless corset?

Lol- Miss Mac- there is much to said about Doggy style...I guess I was wondering if anyone had found a middle cover that isn't a top cover. I'm blushing - lol

[Swampdoggie 477]

I'm thinking judiciously arranged frosting. Maybe it becomes Pavlovian and the sight of your scars get your partner drooling?

[ShellMilliner 233]

@Swampdoggie WINNING!

I'm thinking judiciously arranged frosting. Maybe it becomes Pavlovian and the sight of your scars get your partner drooling?

[MissLiss 71]

Hahaha!

[judyoz 240]

Just wait until dark and keep the lights off

[MissLiss 71]

Ok- that's it...I'm going to market a tube of lacy fabric to slip over the torso...giggle

[mallen1895 108]

The topless corset sounds good and it's sexy

[ShellMilliner 233]

If you've never checked them out, Hips and Curves has amazing lingerie.

http://www.hipsandcurves.com/?gclid=Cj0KEQjwstaqBRCT38DWpZjJotIBEiQAERS6_NW90b33cUyXg_71pgl06rqlFdVdeJt3w6WelVHEHFAaAohf8P8HAQ

[CJFW 23]

HAHHA, I love the comments.. SO I can see where your coming from.. I had scares from my gallbladder removal so I was lucky when they removed the stomach he reused the same areas. I too had some bruising an a little pain.. SO nothing even touching me could work for the first month. I was nauseated by the Protein and had to take anti nausea meds which left me sleepy and woozy.. so there was not many positions I could get into that would not:

A. cause me some discomfort

B. Show the bruises

c. I would not get dizzy and fall..

SO the solution we can up with was laying on our side in a spooning position. This way he could still hold me and the girls, and it didn't put pressure on my abdominal area. It also helped to put a pillow (fold it in half) between your knees. Worked like a charm.

NO COMPLAINTS were had by him or I

[LipstickLady 25,682]

So.....

Name one guy, JUST ONE, who is looking at your torso when there are nekkid boobs out AND a warm mother earth place for his wiggly worm.

I've been married for 20 years (two months and 6 days) and I can tell you my husband can't even begin to describe the birth mark above my belly button due to BOOBS.

BOOBS.

That's all he sees. Seriously.

[Weighting2BeFree 164]

So.....

Name one guy, JUST ONE, who is looking at your torso when there are nekkid boobs out AND a warm mother earth place for his wiggly worm.

I've been married for 20 years (two months and 6 days) and I can tell you my husband can't even begin to describe the birth mark above my belly button due to BOOBS.

BOOBS.

That's all he sees. Seriously.

she never mentioned the gender of her partner... And boobs may not do it for her partner... I like the topless corset... I never had to think covering up because... Well like lipsticklady said... Boobs ( did anyone else's seem to get Bigger after surgery or is it just me?)