OMG! ! As the days go by I'm getting freaked out about this.. RNY I'm 33yrs I never had serious health problem just severe migran and back pain but nothing serious I have a bmi of 41 I'm 5'0 feet this been a very fast process It all started on the 12/4 the seminar on the 6 of jan. Fist doc. Appt. And got my sugery date for the 27 of jan. And then they moved it to the 23 next friday! So fast..... but I can't stop thinking about if this is the rigth decision forgot to mention I have try so many times to loose weight but no success there were this option comes in my doc. Head and mines but as the days get closer I'm getting more scared nervous and start thinking so much about it I read a post earlier from someone that freaked me out even more of how she regrets ever doing this op she gone through a lot of wrong thing and just thinking would that be me I have 3 kids that depends on me and I can't stop thinking if something goes wrong what would happen? Am I the only one with this thought I really would like to see you your opinion on this and advice plz

No cause I back out of my first date until I felt I was mentally ready

OMG! ! As the days go by I'm getting freaked out about this.. RNY I'm 33yrs I never had serious health problem just severe migran and back pain but nothing serious I have a bmi of 41 I'm 5'0 feet this been a very fast process It all started on the 12/4 the seminar on the 6 of jan. Fist doc. Appt. And got my sugery date for the 27 of jan. And then they moved it to the 23 next friday! So fast..... but I can't stop thinking about if this is the rigth decision forgot to mention I have try so many times to loose weight but no success there were this option comes in my doc. Head and mines but as the days get closer I'm getting more scared nervous and start thinking so much about it I read a post earlier from someone that freaked me out even more of how she regrets ever doing this op she gone through a lot of wrong thing and just thinking would that be me I have 3 kids that depends on me and I can't stop thinking if something goes wrong what would happen? Am I the only one with this thought I really would like to see you your opinion on this and advice plz

I was 37 with three kids when I did the surgery and I have no regets.. It has changed my life in so many ways... Yes I eat different but the trade off is so worth it... My kids and I can do things together, mom can dance and even help around the house without having to take so many breaks..I just got my first teaching job and I can teach all day and come home and still have time for them.... Do what is best for you... Is what you have now the life you want for yourself and your kids? I wanted more for them then just taking care of their mom, I wanted to be able to care for them...

@@teacherlady2133 thank you for your words

I'm the same Jk. I started this process 12/18 with a seminar and am scheduled for surgery on 2/10. Yes, it's fast. Yes, my head is still spinning. But, I've been thinking about this surgery on and off for years! I think I just have a case of nerves. I'm a natural worrier and tend to always second guess myself. I know this will improve my life. I just need to keep that in mind and not let my worry wart nature get the best of me! Take a deep breath, write all the pros and cons down on paper, and talk with your loved ones more. I'm bless, my have been very encouraging. Hugs to you.

I guess family it's very important but in my case half it's with me and my hubby doesn't want