I am getting sleeved on Tuesday! I have wondered how is the sex life post op. Energy? Extra skin? Etc? I am married to a loving husband who supports me and I just wonder how my sex life May or may not change. Please keep it real!

My experience with yo yo dieting in past years is that when I am not fat........my man is very happy with the libido!!

Be prepared to spend most of the moments, until you get used to it saying in your head and out loud...

"Oooh, look at my hip bones sticking out'.

'Oooh! Look how bendy I am now!'

'Hmm...Do you think that chandelier will support my weight now? I think I'm going to swing off of it'.

LETS SAY OH YEAH!

Personally, I'm embarrassed of my boobs. My belly doesn't have that much extra skin. I'm also embarrassed of my thighs. My sex drive has never been that great to begin with and the surgery hasn't really changed that for me (poor hubby, lol!). Good luck!

The bedroom improvements are the BEST NSV, promise!!!

I think the fact that you have a very supportive husband that already loves you for you is a major plus! You will definitely have more energy. I've lost 90lbs and have some rather unattractive wrinkly skin on my tummy and thighs. I recently started dating someone about 2 months ago and he constantly tells me that I look great to him. That's all that matters!

I'm surprised weight loss hasn't increased my sex drive more. I have had a libido lack since I started Zoloft. Hoping weight loss will eventually lead to a reduction of the Zoloft and subsequently an increase in mojo. The good news is that its no longer a hardship.

sex begins in the brain and if I feel good about myself....shazaammm!