Hi!

I'm starting over because I changed my mind the first time. Mostly because I didn't feel comfortable with the Dr. (Dr. Ahmad in Port Jefferson, NY). His reputation is impeccable but I don't like to fee like a number. I actually like to talk to the Dr before we head into the OR.

I tried to diet (again) and it just doesn't work! So I got a referral from a friend that was sleeved in 11/13 (New York Bariatric Group, Dr. Angstadt). I am so happy with him. He spent over 40 minutes talking to my husband and I.

I already have most of my clearances done so at my next appt on 3/17 I should have a date!

Again, I'm starting to freak out!

I'm 5'3 and 206lbs and I have moderate sleep apnea. I can't help thinking that I am opting for surgery that I really don't need. I lost 65lbs on my own but had a car accident in June that left me with 9 herniated discs. Since then I've gained 55lbs and can't find the motivation. I can't work out and I'm almost always in pain!

Any words of encouragement would be greatly appreciated!!!

Thanks ????

I can't help thinking that I am opting for surgery that I really don't need.

It is really easy to think that way, and I have had those moments myself.

Then I look at the facts and realize that I have been dieting and gaining over and over and over for 20+ years. Frankly if I was gonna succeed in keeping the weight off, I would have done so already. That's my take on it. Once I made my mind up I haven't looked back.

Another thing to consider is that sleep apnea is a serious problem and causes high blood pressure over time (among other things). When I was trying to make my mind up I asked myself whether I would have an operation to cure my sleep apnea and the answer was YES.

Good luck to you!

You will be just fine. Let's put our big girl panties on and walk into the OR.

The time will pass anyway, Are you going to be miserable ( in more ways than 1) or will you decide that finally you will get your weight under control.

I have a pretty decent back injury after 3 car accidents in 18 months and I did not have to work out to lose 100 lbs in 10 months. I still don't need to work out. It just stops my weight loss.

So quit the whining and just do it already. You are going to feel silly for all the negative energy you put into this.

Sarah

Thank you!!

I know exactly how you feel. Ive been overweight all my life and I was on roll in 2012 I had lost 35lbs on my own and then I had a car accident and ended up with 3 herniated discs and neuropathy on my right leg. I've never had backpain in my life. Needless to say its been a tough road since and after hearing numerous Dr's tell me WLS is the best route for me instead of spine surgery. You are going to do awesome, there is a light @ the end of the tunnel. Best wishes on your WLS journey!!

I know exactly how you feel. Ive been overweight all my life and I was on roll in 2012 I had lost 35lbs on my own and then I had a car accident and ended up with 3 herniated discs and neuropathy on my right leg. I've never had backpain in my life. Needless to say its been a tough road since and after hearing numerous Dr's tell me WLS is the best route for me instead of spine surgery. You are going to do awesome, there is a light @ the end of the tunnel. Best wishes on your WLS journey!!

Thank you so much for your words of encouragement!! I really appreciate it and it's helps that you understand the back injury obstacle...ugh!

When is your surgery?

Thank you so much for your words of encouragement!! I really appreciate it and it's helps that you understand the back injury obstacle...ugh!

When is your surgery?

My surg date is April 23. GL on ur journey!

My surg date is April 23. GL on ur journey!

My surgery date is May 7th....

Thank you & good luck!! Keep in touch!