I can't believe this is happening so quickly. Tomorrow is my day. I am a lot less nervous than I thought I'd be. I've been on a liquid diet for 7 days (I did cheat a few times), but it's been under 50 grams of carbs which was the hardest part. I am shocked at how easy it became after the first 2 days (major headache-sugar w/d) the 2nd day. I am mostly excited now, but I've been prone to anxiety in the past, so I hope it doesn't hit me tonight. I have 4 kids and my major fear is just the recovery and how I'll be able to take care of them. My husband is very helpful, but he can only miss work tomorrow so I will most likely be on my own by Monday (although I have friends and family that can help).

Any final words of wisdom? I think this site has made me less nervous, and I appreciate all the thoughtful posts. I am only scared that I am taking this risk right now while still having young children. I know, deep down this is not an "optional" surgery b/c I can't do it on my own. I want to enjoy my kids and live a healthy active life. I can't do that now at 278 pounds...........

Thanks everyone. I'll report back after my surgery.

Gretchen:)

You'll be fine Gretchen!! My only advice is to get help with the kids. I was lucky enough to have my mom keep them for 5 days. I couldn't imagine having to take care of someone else after my surgery. It was a little rough the first 3 days..but it only got better. It was just the getting up and sitting down part. It was nice just to be able to sit around and not have to worry about anyone else for a change.

Let us know how you are doing after surgery!

GOOD LUCK TODAY, and keep us posted!!!!

I babysit for my 2 yr. old granddaughter. My DD had made other arrangements for her while I recovered...but I felt good. I hadmine done in Mexico. I flew home 5 hours on the 3rd day, and then had another 5 hours by car---and only needed some Tylenol for a headache. I told her to cancel the back up, and she was here with me from then on. We were working and remodeling a place my DD was moving into, so I was back at Home Depot the day after I got home, shopping.

Not everyone has it quite soeasy---but it was much easier to me than the root canal I had a few months ago!

Just start walking ASAP!!!

Good Luck---I'll be thinking of you!

Kat

Good Luck to you! You will have to let us know how you are doing!

Good luck and keep us posted on your progress. Don't forget, we are all here for you.

Hi Gretchen! I am thinking about you! I hope the surgery went well. Looking forward to hearing from you when you feel up to it. I'm here if you need me! Gigi

Hi everyone,

My surgery went remarkably well. The doctor told my husband it was one of his easiest ever! I was shocked at how painful the gas was the first day, but it started moving last night and I feel much better. It's been 48 hours now and at this point it's mostly just the getting up and down. I think my husband will stay home tomorrow b/c it's snowing and the kids will probably be out of school (that will be a little too much for me). Otherwise I feel very thankful that it went so smoothly. Thanks for all your responses. I will keep you posted.

Gretchen

banded 2/23/07