Oh my goodness!!!! It's almost here! I feel like I'm falling apart. I want this, but I feel like I'm a nervous wreck! My emotions are crazy--I cry over things that I usually can handle? I keep having dreams about the surgery. What is going on? Is this going to pass after I actually have the surgery on Monday or is it going to get worse? Is this just me, or does this happen to a lot of people before they get the band? It is just such a big deal! It is such a life-changing thing! What if I can't be disciplined enough to eat the way I'm supposed to? What if the after surgery pain is unbearable because I have fibromyalgia--my pain sensitivity has gone over the top since I've had fibro. Help....:help:

It's natural to have nervousness prior to a major surgery. Especially WLS because you're right...you are making a major lifestyle change. But, if you are prepared to do your best and stay committed to making your band work for you then that's what you should try to focus on. The band will help you gain some control over your hunger so don't be too worried about discipline unless you already know that you are not willing to give up sweets and junk food. If you're ready to follow doctor's orders then I suspect you'll be just fine! Good luck!

Hello there! I was banded on February 12. Yes I think you are perfectly normal to be a bit nervous, you are having major surgery after all. But everything will be ok! After your surgery you will be so excited to start your new life journey. Stay on top of your pain meds, dont miss a dose, the first few days after surgery. Take good care of yourself and remember we are all here for you.

good luck. i just got my date today, July 16!!! I cannot wait.

You are just going through all the normal emotions! Try to keep busy! Good Luck, and don't forget to post and let us know how you did!

You will be fine. I was banded on May 29 and went through the same feelings you are. It is a huge decision to do what we are doing . I am on the pureed stage of food. Also know that you may have feelings afterward of "what did I do?" I did. I really believe that the discomfort and pain meds cause this. Again, this will pass and you wiill be so happy and proud of the courageous decision you have made. That is how I feel now and I am 2 weeks post op. Best of everything to you!:clap2: