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Regrets And Second Guesses?

Hey Family,

So I have been feeling negative about my surgery for a little while now wondering if I made the right decisons and thinking about how long I have to eat like this, forever. I miss all the foods that I love so much and sometimes feel like I wish I didn't have this surgery so I could have them. Does or has anyone else felt this way? I feel so alone right now. I am sad :(

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    • TinyMamiOf3kids
      TinyMamiOf3kids

      Your not alone but we can have all the bad food in the future but if we over do it then we will regain. Then it would had been a waste of time having surgery. I love food & always will but I feel

    • BBdoodle
      BBdoodle

      Your affair with food is over sweetie you need to focus on other things. I am 7 months post op and just starting to eat normal now. If I crave something I only have a bite or two, and the key is MOD

    • eeyoregirl1970
      eeyoregirl1970

      Theby that us a worry I have and I'm still Pre op. I think it has to be normal. Any of us wouldn't need this tool if we didn't love food. I imagine feeling like doodle soon and finding that being fit

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    I know how you feel I can't even enjoy food anymore cuz a bite and I'm full it's like what's even the point. But me liking to eat to much food is what got me into this mess so I think it's kinda for the best.

    Yeah I always try to remind myself that but sometimes I rather give up the surgery so I can eat that food just at that moment. Obviously it passes and my moods go up and down but I am sure this will pass too. Don't get me wrong I am very thankful for the opportunity to have this surgery, I am just going through the motions.

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    Helllllll no do I have regrets! Are you kidding me... You get your life back! Live t and don't regret it... It's been 12 years for me now... GOP was boss for a long time...

    LOL, well I can see why you don't regretit you look freakin amazing. Congrats on your success and being a positive role model. What does GOP stand for?

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