I wanted to hear some stories and get advice about dating post op. Have you ladies had success? Have things not changed? My therapist convinced me to join eharmony as an experiment to work on my social skills..I listened to her and all I've gotten out of it is rejection. I figure it's because I'm still "obese" and I've found guys in my age range want the supermodel Barbie types and that's not what I am and I doubt I'll ever be one. My 111 pound weight loss helped my self esteem tremendously but this online dating debacle is starting to bring me down a bit.

Jane I would love for you to look at my profiles. I havae several. I don't know if you're comfortable putting your email on here. I can't send pms.

I can't get into out new group. The link she gave me won't work. I want in there badly!

email me and I will send you several versions of my profiles.

the are so "vanilla" I need something peppy and more unique. Mine read really flat.

Daisy I sent an email. I suggest you edit your post to get rid of that email addy. BOTS roam the web looking for valid email addresses .. at a minimum to annoy you with junk email.