I really don't know what his problem is and I definitely don't have enough time out of my day to find out. I have enough going on. It seems like there is no interest there anymore. Like I have to ask him for an appointment to have sex. So i don't even ask anymore. That's fine with me because he knows what happen last time someone else found interest and he was not a happy camper. So I advise him to stop and its not even about sex because trust me i can always find my own satisfaction (and it was more satisfying) it's other selfish, rude things and I'm not the one to keep pissing off because you won't like to see the end results. Help!!!

Sounds like you might need some couples counseling to try to work out your issues and decide if the relationship is worth being in.

Sounds like you might need some couples counseling to try to work out your issues and decide if the relationship is worth being in.

Thanks DeniseM, I'm not doing no counseling. Reason being he'll say we don't need other people knowing our business (his meaning: he is not beat to going to them people) I'm 38 and he is 30 we have been together for ten and a half years which was fine at first I have his only two kids plus for older of my own but my step is to just separate because i don't like added complications. If it's a problem he's having I'm here to help but if you don't want my help keep the attitude to himself. Simple

As much as you don't want to, I think this is going to require sitting down and having a long conversation. Sometimes this surgery can affect our significant others in ways we didn't expect.