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Grrr men!

Before I start I appologize in advance to all the men on here.

I was dating a guy and I was excited when I finally made the choice to start the process for my sleeve. So I told him and his response, 'I only date large women.'. WTF!!! I kicked him to the curb but really if you I love you shouldn't you be supportive no matter the decision? Oh and he maybe weighed 140 lbs if that.

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  • DonRodolfo
    DonRodolfo

    Looks like he didn't love you - his loss! Don't fret - soon the ones who appreciate you for being you will be lining up to dance with you.

  • makemyownluck
    makemyownluck

    Well, at least he was honest enough to tell you that he only liked you cuz you were big! I'm sure you want more than that in your life, and you'll find it elsewhere. What a shallow jerk! On to the

  • Takingcontrol
    Takingcontrol

    I agree with Don....you will find someone who loves you for you....not your body!

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Before I start I appologize in advance to all the men on here.

I was dating a guy and I was excited when I finally made the choice to start the process for my sleeve. So I told him and his response, 'I only date large women.'. WTF!!! I kicked him to the curb but really if you I love you shouldn't you be supportive no matter the decision? Oh and he maybe weighed 140 lbs if that.

Looks like he didn't love you - his loss!

Don't fret - soon the ones who appreciate you for being you will be lining up to dance with you. ;)

Well, at least he was honest enough to tell you that he only liked you cuz you were big! I'm sure you want more than that in your life, and you'll find it elsewhere. What a shallow jerk!

On to the next one, hon! ;)

I agree with Don....you will find someone who loves you for you....not your body!

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Well' date=' at least he was honest enough to tell you that he only liked you cuz you were big! I'm sure you want more than that in your life, and you'll find it elsewhere. What a shallow jerk!

On to the next one, hon! ;)[/quote']

Yes I do want more than that. I have just never been told that. Usually its the other way around.....they don't want to date me because I'm too big.

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Thanks all for the reassurance!

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