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Ugh I literally jus want to cry!!! I'm so crabby, I miss food, the guy I was dating (it wasn't working out) but we decided to call it quits, I went to see my surgeon and he wasn't that happy with my weight loss (i could just tell...i told him i didn't start to diet until i had to do my liquid diet)(so i don't even feel good about the 8lbs that i've lost so far on my liquid diet because in his eyes I've only lost 2lbs because after my 1st appt I went out and ate everything and anything i wanted) GIVE ME A BREAK!!!! I'm doing the best I can my surgery is 6 days away and I'm jus so blah...Please tell me after this I'm going to start to feel good about things again.... :wacko:

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My mom is 8 months post-op & she swears that this is the hardest part & it's totally worth it. After 7 days of her liquid diet she didn't even miss food or her diet cokes (stone cold Dcoke addict) ????lol. I'm worried about that part myself because I've never had to be on such a restrictive diet before. I thought gestational diabetes was HELL ????& the pre surgery diet will be even worse for me...I'm such a baby! Lol! Just hang in there girl & keep your eye on the prize ????

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Ugh I literally jus want to cry!!! I'm so crabby, I miss food, the guy I was dating (it wasn't working out) but we decided to call it quits, I went to see my surgeon and he wasn't that happy with my weight loss (i could just tell...i told him i didn't start to diet until i had to do my liquid diet)(so i don't even feel good about the 8lbs that i've lost so far on my liquid diet because in his eyes I've only lost 2lbs because after my 1st appt I went out and ate everything and anything i wanted) GIVE ME A BREAK!!!! I'm doing the best I can my surgery is 6 days away and I'm jus so blah...Please tell me after this I'm going to start to feel good about things again.... :wacko:

i promise you will feel better soon! everyone slips up and makes mistakes but its up to you, to decide that it is time you make that lifestyle change and no more excuses and feel good and great about it! :) your entire life is about to change so fast and its only 6 days away! congrats to you. 8 lbs is alot and its a start! just stay focused :) we all went through the same thing and the discipline you teach yourself now will make a huge difference once you are sleeved. good luck to you <3 :)

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My mom is 8 months post-op & she swears that this is the hardest part & it's totally worth it. After 7 days of her liquid diet she didn't even miss food or her diet cokes (stone cold Dcoke addict) lol. I'm worried about that part myself because I've never had to be on such a restrictive diet before. I thought gestational diabetes was HELL & the pre surgery diet will be even worse for me...I'm such a baby! Lol! Just hang in there girl & keep your eye on the prize

Thanks Mom5 i'm gonna keep on pushing..

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i promise you will feel better soon! everyone slips up and makes mistakes but its up to you, to decide that it is time you make that lifestyle change and no more excuses and feel good and great about it! :) your entire life is about to change so fast and its only 6 days away! congrats to you. 8 lbs is alot and its a start! just stay focused :) we all went through the same thing and the discipline you teach yourself now will make a huge difference once you are sleeved. good luck to you <3 :)

Thank you so much!! Will do.

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Ok you have six days left until surgery?? Dry those tears brush yourself off. Its time to let all the other drama go so you can go into this major life changing surgery with a clear head!

You are going to need it, you are going to have weeks of healing and adjusting to a new life.

Busy yourself by getting things in order for yourself when you leave the hospital.

Take care of the important things right now, you and your health and the drastic step you are taking to improve it.

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Ok you have six days left until surgery?? Dry those tears brush yourself off. Its time to let all the other drama go so you can go into this major life changing surgery with a clear head!

You are going to need it' date=' you are going to have weeks of healing and adjusting to a new life.

Busy yourself by getting things in order for yourself when you leave the hospital.

Take care of the important things right now, you and your health and the drastic step you are taking to improve it.[/quote']

WOW Laura-ven that's everything I needed to hear...no one else understands except the people on here thank god for this chat!! Thanks again

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Ugh I literally jus want to cry!!! I'm so crabby' date=' I miss food, the guy I was dating (it wasn't working out) but we decided to call it quits, I went to see my surgeon and he wasn't that happy with my weight loss (i could just tell...i told him i didn't start to diet until i had to do my liquid diet)(so i don't even feel good about the 8lbs that i've lost so far on my liquid diet because in his eyes I've only lost 2lbs because after my 1st appt I went out and ate everything and anything i wanted) GIVE ME A BREAK!!!! I'm doing the best I can my surgery is 6 days away and I'm jus so blah...Please tell me after this I'm going to start to feel good about things again.... :wacko:[/quote']

Mine is 4 days away and I am just as wacko! My paper left it wide open for ne to over eat! I've not eaten any thing on there except once ....I even thought about postponing mine!! What??? I've been working on this for nearly a year! I sent my initial money and app in April 2012

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WOW Laura-ven that's everything I needed to hear...no one else understands except the people on here thank god for this chat!! Thanks again

Good cause I didn't want to have to come back and say things like "put your big girl panties on"

Hehehe

You will be fine. focus on the task at hand and everything else will follow!

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Ugh I literally jus want to cry!!! I'm so crabby, I miss food, the guy I was dating (it wasn't working out) but we decided to call it quits, I went to see my surgeon and he wasn't that happy with my weight loss (i could just tell...i told him i didn't start to diet until i had to do my liquid diet)(so i don't even feel good about the 8lbs that i've lost so far on my liquid diet because in his eyes I've only lost 2lbs because after my 1st appt I went out and ate everything and anything i wanted) GIVE ME A BREAK!!!! I'm doing the best I can my surgery is 6 days away and I'm jus so blah...Please tell me after this I'm going to start to feel good about things again.... :wacko:

Awwww...I know the feeling. I'm 5 days away and sometimes I just wanna throw in the towel but when I look at my grandson and think about the day I'm changing my life I push on. I had 1 cheat day because my husband fried chicken for dinner while I was out at a friends house but failed to put away before I got home. My will power went straight out the window and I ate that chicken leg. I've paid for it in many ways. I'm sure the doctors know we're gonna have some sort of set back but as long as we don't over do it we will be ok. I'm not eating anything else from now on because I REFUSE to start this 2 weeks over...lol. Keep your head up and remeber our trip..lol

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Good cause I didn't want to have to come back and say things like "put your big girl panties on"

Hehehe

You will be fine. focus on the task at hand and everything else will follow!

Lol thanks...

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Awwww...I know the feeling. I'm 5 days away and sometimes I just wanna throw in the towel but when I look at my grandson and think about the day I'm changing my life I push on. I had 1 cheat day because my husband fried chicken for dinner while I was out at a friends house but failed to put away before I got home. My will power went straight out the window and I ate that chicken leg. I've paid for it in many ways. I'm sure the doctors know we're gonna have some sort of set back but as long as we don't over do it we will be ok. I'm not eating anything else from now on because I REFUSE to start this 2 weeks over...lol. Keep your head up and remeber our trip..lol

Ur right we can do this!!!

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Ugh I literally jus want to cry!!! I'm so crabby' date=' I miss food, the guy I was dating (it wasn't working out) but we decided to call it quits, I went to see my surgeon and he wasn't that happy with my weight loss (i could just tell...i told him i didn't start to diet until i had to do my liquid diet)(so i don't even feel good about the 8lbs that i've lost so far on my liquid diet because in his eyes I've only lost 2lbs because after my 1st appt I went out and ate everything and anything i wanted) GIVE ME A BREAK!!!! I'm doing the best I can my surgery is 6 days away and I'm jus so blah...Please tell me after this I'm going to start to feel good about things again.... :wacko:[/quote']

Don't feel bad or be mad at your self. I understand how you feel but look I ate very day of my liquid diet expect for the last two days. I'm addicted to food but I realize that I did make mistakes in the way but we just need to learn from there so next time we could make better decisions .I didn't lose not even a pound. I when up 3 pounds as long at you know what you did wrong you going to be fine. Don't let tour brain tricks you. I though I was never going to eat my fevered food again. And when crazy But I realize that that was a lie I was going to eat aging but in a better manner way where I could be healthy and I toke it from there. I get mines tomorrow. Believe in yourself you could do this. Only 6 more days to your new you. <3

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