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I had surg 12/7! Psw 205 came home 215! Now im 196! Starting to wonder is I'm gunna fail at this? Especially since I'm stalling! Any stories similar to this! I would like to know from people from 6 mos plus!

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I have had the same fear. I try to think that every pound i loose big or small its gone for good im going to do what i can to make sure it doesnt. Stick with it. Your body could still be adjusting from the surgery.

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Do a search for "week 3 stall" on the site and you'll see that a stall at week 3 is pretty much par for the course. It will pass. Stalling is a part of weight loss. Some weeks are better than others, but if you're sticking to your plan then you will lose. You probably won't lose it as fast as you want (who doesn't want to lose more than they're currently losing, amirite?) but you will lose and the weight will come off.

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