I'm a single mom. I had my son when I was 15, and had a tormultous relationship with his father. Wasted a lot of my life. Now I'm 34, my son is 19, I'm single, and hope to find true love and be married. I also would like to have at least 1 or 2 more children and have the even celebrated. I lost my left ovary due to having a dermoid tumor two years ago. My doc told me on Friday, that I may have a small one growing on my right ovary. I can't have sleeve surgery until next year this time. I've tried losing weight on my own to attract guys but losing weight is a bear as you all know.

Once having the surgery I have to wait 12mths to get pregnant.

I just have so many stressors right now, I'm afraid of how things are going. I don't want to lose my other ovary and my chances of having any more children. Sometimes I feel like I'm being punished for some things i did when I was younger.

Why me???

I know it might not be the solution you are looking for but have you considered freezing some of your eggs for use in the future if you do have any trouble with your remaining ovary.

Here's hoping your year goes by quickly. UK Cathy posted an excellent idea.

I've thought about that. The cost will be the issue though. That is a good idea, I'm going to look it up. This just really makes my life more stressful than it already is.