one ex husband looked great and the last one had to weigh over 400 lb it was a shock hadn't seen, him for about 7 years he weighed 250 when i left him he was over 6.0 i would likey to tell him about the surgery but don't think he wants to hear it from me. good thing the new husband is not going too many husbands in, room for me but At least i will look good there is always an upside

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What you can eat will depend on where you go. If you go out to dinner and there is either a buffet or menu, you can order Cottage cheese, Applesauce, Soup (eat around the chunks), hot tea/coffee. Some people here, during the mushy phase get to eat white fish, maybe that is an option for you?

So glad you'll get to show off the "new you" to the old hubbies. I can't even tell you (this is going to sound like I'm 15 again), but I was only about a week past surgery so very near my highest weight, no make up, very, very comfy clothes and ran into an old boyfriend's mother. Why this could/would bother me, who knows. I haven't seen her (or him) in 18 years, but I cannot lie, it would have been nice if I had looked better. I KNOW her and that she told him she saw me. But it would have been great if she could have seen a skinny me! LOL. I mean really!! Who cares????? I'm happily married, but something about the old flames thinking about what they don't have.....:-)

Have fun on your trip and congrats to your daughter!!