I am going to a brazilian steakhouse in a few weeks. It is one of those place where they walk around with skewers of meat and people gorge themselves on fantastic food. I will be doing the eating (my whole 3oz. of meat) but not the gorging. Has anyone ever asked for a discount, or kids price due to their surgery? I have heard of people having a dining card or something?

I just don't want to broadcast my surgery to everyone and their mother. I live in a pretty big city - 1 million people - and still, it seems that every week I come across someone who is friends with someone in my social circle. For example, I just recently found out that the 2 guys who own the gym I go to know my fiance's coworker/good friend. I don't want a server at some restaurant who's friends with someone I know to be like, "Oh hey, I saw this chick who had weightloss surgery at our restaurant!" and then the person finds out it's me.