My name is Cindy - I'm 31, married, and have 2 kids. I love in Arlington, Washington. I've been consumed with my weight issues for the last 2 years- I think about it from the time I wake up to the time I go to bed.

I've tried to just "accept" this is who I am and be ok with it. But - that just doesn't work for me. I was thin growing up, then after my kids my weight varied in the 170-190 range. (what I'd give to be 170 now!!)

I'm now 255 lbs and I'm NOT ok with it. It just keeps coming and my energy level is awful. I haven't been able to sustain any significant weight loss on my own.

After meeting someone in person who had the surgery - I started looking into it. The cost in the US was out of my budget, but the options in Mexico work for me. I did my homework and got my ducks in a row. I just scheduled my surgery today for the 16th of August with Dr. Ortiz in TJ.

I have some fears - wondering how my body will feel when its done, if I'll be successful, will I have energy even though I can't eat as much, will I still be hungry? Those are my biggest worries : Will I still get my "no food" headache and will I be hungry.

Regardless, I'm scheduled and I'm going to be banded soon!

Hi Cindy, Congratulations. I'm waiting for surgery too. This waiting is killing me

I wish you the best, please keep us posted.

Hi Cindy, Welcome to LBT! I'm also new here, and pretty much in the same boat as you. I'm 33 with 1 son, gained & lost but ultimately skyrocketed after his birth. I'm doing the pre-surgery appointments now: Psych evaluation, sleep study, dietitian, etc... I hope to schedule my surgery for late August or early September. I am so glad you found this site, I have learned a lot from the members. Good luck!

Good for you. The day will be here before you know it. This is a wonderful place to research. There are many people here who have had great success and are a wealth of information. Congratulations and be sure to let us know how you are doing.