Once Bitten, Twice Shy
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In 1991 I had a Gastric Bypass. My beginning weight was 284 lbs and I got down to 150 lbs within the first 6 months. I stopped there and was really quite happy with my loss as I was the smallest I had ever been in my life (including in high school). I thought I looked pretty great. It didn't last, though, and now, 20 years later I am almost back where I started--and sick about it.
Looking back, I can see where I made my mistakes (I refused to exercise, other than the normal increase of activity due to a smaller frame and more energy, I didn't give up sugar, and I could probably name a number of other things that I did wrong). I am now looking at starting again, but there are so many more options than there were when I first had this done. I was planning to look into the lap band procedure, but then I began hearing about the sleeve. As I have been doing some online research about that process, it seems that there are more long-term benefits to that surgery than the lap band.
Of course, money is an issue with no coverage for either procedure by my insurance company, so I was very happy to hear of the Jerusalem Clinic and their extremely reasonable price for this surgery. I am not naive enough to believe that everyone has a wonderful experience or that I am going to have a top-rate hospital for the advertised price, but from what I have read on these boards, while not top-of-the-line, I can expect a clean facility with a doctor who apparently knows what he is doing.
My question then, is what about follow up? I have been reading a blog from a woman who had the sleeve done in San Francisco in 2008, I think. She was required to go through psych evals, pre-surgery weight-loss, and extensive followup visits including a lot of lab work at key points following surgery. She is EXTREMELY into being an athlete now and has gotten down to size 0 and 113 pounds. Honestly, I still don't need to do all that. I think that I gave up on myself last time by allowing myself to break the rules such that I regained the weight back, and I really do want to go down to probably 125-135 lbs rather than stopping at 150 like I did before, but reading her journey makes me a bit nervous about living a "normal" lifestyle if I expect to get the results I want.
I have decided that I want to begin exercising as it is good for the body and I am now 50 years old and will really need to work on exercise in order to cut down on the excess skin after getting to goal, but I don't want every day to have my first thought be about going to the gym, competing in triathalons, and all that stuff. I want to be comfortable riding my bike (I have a beautiful one I haven't gotten on for the last 5 years), swimming, speed walking, or just playing a game of volleyball when I feel like it, or even just attending the local gym to work out 3 times a week. Is this possible? Can this sleeve work to get you to a reasonable goal weight without killing yourself at the gym?
The second part of my question is about whether there is anyone out there posting here that has gone through a bypass and has or is considering doing a second surgery. When asking the person at the Jerusalem Center about that, she suggested that I would be better off with the lap band rather than the sleeve. But the big bonus in the sleeve is the removal of the hunger thing and the lap band (nor the bypass) had that. I'd like to get some input from someone who has been there. Plus, I'd love to know how it is going the second time around. Thanks in advance for any responses.