Ok a bit if good news bad news for me altho I'm losing weight my husband is stacking it on :-( it's my fault I still cook to much food and he all ways goes back for seconds or finishes my left overs or he adds bread to his plate 2-4 slices . How can I tell him his eating to much when he never complained about my weight .

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Ok a bit if good news bad news for me altho I'm losing weight my husband is stacking it on :-( it's my fault I still cook to much food and he all ways goes back for seconds or finishes my left overs or he adds bread to his plate 2-4 slices . How can I tell him his eating to much when he never complained about my weight .

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Are you cooking healthier? Maybe cook less? I am lucky to have just me to worry about. I think you should talk to him. I think communication is the biggest part of a relationship. It's mostly in the delivery.

It's not your fault- you're not making him eat the food. Maybe cook smaller portions?

Ok a bit if good news bad news for me altho I'm losing weight my husband is stacking it on :-( it's my fault I still cook to much food and he all ways goes back for seconds or finishes my left overs or he adds bread to his plate 2-4 slices . How can I tell him his eating to much when he never complained about my weight .

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I understand, my husband is gaining allot now too. I am buying less of foods I notice he binges on. I cook healthier and cook less. I also make him walk with me. I also tell him he needs to calm it, even though he never said anything to me.

Thank you all for your help and support will try talking to him :-) I have been cooking healthy food like stews and curries Soups all things that are slow cooked and soft .

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