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This is one pf those cases where you have to live one day at a time. Focus on what you can do today to give you the best shot in healing and not think about tomorrow. I know that stress does tighten m
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PS try to live like you're in "bandster hell" again. Just like those of us that haven't reached our green zone yet. Doing the LB rules with no restriction. You can do it! Track your food(I use MyFitne
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Thanks everyone for the support! This is really a great place! I do truly want to be calm about this whole thing. Even though the new doctor doesn't have a good bedside manner I do feel that he's t
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I was banded 3 years ago. I weighed 240 and lost down to 150 within a little over a year. I loved the band and thought it was absolutely wonderful. My doctor that I thought was a great doctor suddenly left the practice and the last time I'd went in I had to see the nurse. She said I needed a fill and about killed me trying to find my port. Usually it's not the least bit painful but I was ready to cry! Finally she got it but didn't tell me how much of a fill I got, which was nothing like the doctor I had. I was so upset that things were so painful and that I'd gotten a bruise that lasted over 2 months, that I was too scared to go back. In the meantime I'd got a letter telling me that there was a new doctor coming in to replace the doctor that'd left and that it'd be about a month before he'd be seeing patients. This whole time I was having problems with my band (burning pain in my port, back pain, chest pain, loss of taste and waking up at night coughing with really bad heartburn and reflux. I had also lost all restriction within a few weeks of having the fill.) Again I was terrified of going in because the nurse was so horrible so I just kept prolonging things and trying to make it. Finally I couldn't take it anymore, I'd gained a lot of weight back and the pain was just getting worse. I called and asked was the new doctor seeing patients and was told yes. I made and appointment and went in yesterday. I explained to him about everything and even told him about how the nurse did. I was informed she was no longer working at the office (I'm fairly sure I wasn't the only one that complained, nor am I sure she was even allowed to give fills because they had no record of her doing so or how much she added). The new doctor didn't have a friendly bedside manner like the one I was used to. Anyway, he was concerned with what I had told him and he thought maybe there could be a hole in the port area (probably because that crazy nurse!). He sent me down to have an upper GI done and told me to come back up afterward for the results. I went down and drank the stuff and had the x-rays and went back up. He came in and told me that my band had been excessively tight. I told him I didn't understand because I didn't have any restriction. He then told me to come into his office and he'd show me the x-rays and explain. When I got there he showed me everything. He said that my band had been tightened so tight that nothing could get through. He didn't understand how I was even getting fluid down comfortably. I told him I had no issues drinking or eating but did feel some pain all the time. I again told him I had no restriction though. He showed me the fluid going through the band and he was right it was just barely seeping through. It didn't make since to me. I asked him how I was getting food down then. He then pointed out to me my esophagus above my band. He said that it wasn't supposed to be anywhere near that big. He said my esophagus had no where for the food to go and instead of forcing me to throw it back up it had just stretched out. It had stretched out so much it had basically created a stomach about the size of both my fist put together. I asked him what we were going to do and he said he had to remove all of the fluid in my band and give it time to hopefully heal. I asked him then what. He said hopefully in a month or two it'd heal and we could retighten the band but starting over like I'd just gotten the band. I asked him what happens if it doesn't heal back down. He then said we wasn't going to discuss that and we needed to just hope that it will heal. I'm scared to death now! I'm worried about gaining the weight back completely (I'm only 37 pounds from it as it is) and worse than that of what happens if I don't heal. I'm thinking it's most likely meaning either removing my band or at the least having to go through another surgery to fix it. I have all kinds of worries! I thought getting the band was going to make my life so much better but now I'm thinking it's a horrible NIGHTMARE! I also found out that the doctor I had before had totally different rules. For example he forbid any protein shakes. He said I was to never EVER to drink them. His theory was no liquid calories whatsoever! He also did not believe in a liquid diet after fills. He said that it did not make any sense. I told the new doctor this and he looked at me like I was crazy and then just said well now I'm your doctor. You always drink protein shakes for breakfast and that will be your breakfast. I'm mad, I'm confused, I'm scared, I'm everything. What am I supposed to do? Am I really supposed to be drinking protein shakes for breakfast and nothing else? I was always told protein first but never in liquid form. The diet this doctor wants me on is totally different than the other doctor and had I known all this I'm not so sure I'd have went through the surgery because it's pretty much going to be the diet without the band. Don't get me wrong, I ate what I was supposed to. I never drank anything other than water and on rare occasions I'd have a cup of milk.
Sorry I just needed to vent!