Ok ... I hadn't told no one about my surgery .. Well last week my sister goes to pay our insurance into the office ... The girl that is taking her payment tell my sister... How is your sister doing I heard she got the lap-band done... My sister looks at her any said who told you that? She said oh you know everyone around here knows! I'm sad because I really don't know how they found out yesterday I went to my cousins birthday party n I saw some ppl pointing at me n then one of them came to me n asked if it was true ... I didn't know how to react so I just left the party these part is that most of them are family members.... Help why do I feel like I did something wrong?

Thanks everyone for all of y'all s replies

I'm going to talk to my insurance agent .... The good thing is we grew up to gather we know each others families .... Don't know if that's a good thing or bad .

The girl that told my sister is the manager of the insurance office which I also know from a long time ago ... If I didn't know them personally I would most def I would take legal action ... I'm not a bad person just want to be respected

"...I'm not a bad person just want to be respected." Don't let that negative feeling enter your head, you are most definately a good person! Makes me sad you'd even think that.

I can assure you, you will be respected around here! And you'll learn how to get other people "outside" ro respect you. Have faith, good person! :wub: