I just contacted my insurance company today and was really pleased with what they had to say! Next I contacted my hospital of choice and got in touch with their bariatric department. I registered am taking the questionnaire and doing the seminar tonight then it's a waiting game from there. Two week seems like it will be a year to see if I qualify but fingers crossed. I'm on my way to a better me! It just seems that family I have talked to about this doesn't seem supportive. I wish I had more support when it comes down to the bottom line. My husband supports me 100%. Has anybody delt with bad family opinions? How did it reflect your decision to continue on with your journey?

Much love-Rebecca

Yes, but you have to do what's best for you, not your family, yes you will family members not supporting you but when they see the weight come off they will support you than, I hope so for you, but your husband support you than that is all that matters right now for you, I know that you want your family support, they will come around sooner than later. God bless you and good luck.

Hi Newbie !

I decided to have the surgery then let my brother and sister talk me out of it. I was so mad at myself.... But the end result is I have decided to move foward and am now waiting for my surgery date. So very excited.

As I told my family, I will listen to your opinions, thoughts, and concerns with an open mind but I am still going to do this for ME !! They say "Oh you can do this on your own", you dont need this. Well guess what Yes I DO !!

Your husbands support is the one you will need most. Also by joining lap band talk.com you will get lots of support. Everyone here seems to nice..... I'm looking forward to making new friends along this journey..

The bottom line is your doing this for yourself not your family........

Thanks

Belinda

It's about a better and healthier YOU!. You can be a better person and have more energy if you control your weight. Some people will be against what you are doing, let them and stay on your journey. It's a waste of time to try and persuade someone about your choice of weight control. Stay on your track, no matter what surgery you have and follow directions given to you by your doctor. If it's personal support you need from a spouse, tell him to help support your journey in being healthy. We all want to be healthy and not a burden to anyone.

Best wishes and Keep the Faith.