Hi. I am having my first consultation with a Dr. I met at a seminar a few Weeks ago. I will be self pay since my insurance will not cover the lap band because I don't have serious complications from being obese.

I have wanted to get the lap band for about 8 years now but my family has not been supportive. I am now married and my husband has decided to back me up and help me through this journey, which is great and a big relief but I am still deciding if it is worth 15,500

I guess I just need some advise from someone that has been through a similar situation.

Thanks for any advise. :-)

Hi. I am having my first consultation with a Dr. I met at a seminar a few Weeks ago. I will be self pay since my insurance will not cover the lap band because I don't have serious complications from being obese.

I have wanted to get the lap band for about 8 years now but my family has not been supportive. I am now married and my husband has decided to back me up and help me through this journey, which is great and a big relief but I am still deciding if it is worth 15,500

I guess I just need some advise from someone that has been through a similar situation.

Thanks for any advise. :-)

No doubt, it is a major decision...one to be made only after careful deliberation and conducting considerable research. If you want to be successful with weight loss, it will require a life long commitment to change your relationship with food, eat healthier, and exercise.

If you are young enough, you are fortunate that you have no weight related comorbidities...but generally they do present with age and the physical toll of extra weight through the years.

It would help for you to write down a list of the reasons why you want to have this surgery. And, if you've done your research, then you already understand that the band is only a tool; you have to learn to use it as it was designed to be successful with weight loss.

It might also help if you were to locate a local support group and attend a few meetings. This forum is also a place to come and ask questions...there are many knowledgeable and successful participants here that are willing to share their best practices and information.

Best wishes as you consider your options!

Thank you. I know I need to do this and I want to, I guess its just a little scary...im sure once I get going I will start not being so nervous about this decision. :-)