got your attention, didnt I? Just curious what the rules are about how long we are supposed to wait after surgery to have sex. This is one of those questions i would feel a bit wierd asking my doctor, so thanks in advance for your replies.

I didn't ask my surgeon but I was able to get back into the "swing" of things about 4-5 days after surgery. You may have to experiment with different positions to find one that most comfortable for you. However, I do recommend placing your hand over your port area/incision to secure it when in missionary position. Believe me, you'll know immediately why if you don't.

HI,

I thought you coulde have it at the hospital if the doctor was cute and willing, you were single and both were consenting! LOL

Truthfully, I could not even fathom sex the first week after banding, but as long as you feel like it, hey all the more power to ya!! You definitely do want to protect the port area which is the most tender part and likely to be painful if bumped or grabbed at....

Babs in TX

334/180ish

-150 ish

My Dr's office just told me that you can get to the deed when you feel like you want to.

Jen

I waited a week and a half. Yeah that port incision is a bear isn't it?

My doctors exact advice was "as tolerated" so you can either jump back on or wait him out for a month or more.

GRAPHIC DISCUSSSION OF SEXUAL POSITIONS AHEAD

We had luck, and less jostling with my husband standing and me laying perpendicular on the bed, right up to the edge. Our bed is really tall and so is my husband. Also, try the couch. Sit on his lap facing. Being on top means that you control not only what feels good, but what doesn't. You don't get caught trying to stop him with your face pressed into the mattress. *evil smirk*