I lost 100lbs 8months after surgery than got pregnant.. I was originally 289 lowest 188 when I got pregnant.. At delivery I was 250 sad I know.. and now my son is 8 months old and I'm 225 I haven't really lost much weight I'm having a a really hard time getting back to good habits and I know this my sound silly but I really need a Friend who can check up on me n help keep me motivated... I know that seems like I'm a child but it's the help I need so if anyone is willing to mentor and guide me please help thank you

Congrates on the baby! I can only imagine how hard it'll be to get back on track with a baby..but you can do it!. Feel free to contact me anytime..I think maybe we can help each other..My issues aren't a baby (although Ive thought alot about it) mine is the no weight loss due to over eating.. What ever you need from me..advice, or just someone to talk to..I'm here. Good luck.. Nikki

I understand what you are going through. I have been at a stand still for almost a year. I keep losing a few pounds and gaining those pounds back. I need a buddy also!!!!

Thanks guys its just so hard i go to the gym 5 days a week so i havent gained but i should be losing but im not due to over eating uggg i do good for a few days than back to old ways

Sometimes I think this band thing is over rated..lol But I know alot has to due with the person..It is hard and I don't think that you should have to go to the gym 5 days a week..I don't but then again I am in the same boat as you..lol but I have started to walk everyday even if it is just picking my son up from school..chooseing a far away parking spot and even just walking around the store (target). I have also come to realize that stomach crunches aren't really all that bad!...So I'm trying..keep the postive thoughts guys...hang in there and lean on anyone of us that you need too.

Nikki

Good luck to you all.

I am convinced that one's success or failure depends a lot on support.

You need to surround yourself with people who are like minded in your goals, and those who are successful.

Being around negative people can only lead to frustration and slowing down your progress.