I am a 50 yo female. I was banded June 30th. Weighed 280, and lost to 262 before surgery, with Optifast, then gained up to 268 and now back to 263. My goal is 170. I am not worried about size 4 or 6, I just want to be able to fly on a plane without extensions, fit into a regular chair, and retire with my health intact. I am looking for an online site where I can get and give support to others like me.

I live in a rural area for a support group is not available.

I have had 2 fills and this is the first time I have actually felt any restriction. Other than the day following surgery I have been able to eat as I please as long as I chewed everything well. The first 8 weeks have been an eye opener as to how many times I eat too fast. So that has been my focus to slow down and chew. Doesn't seem like much but it is a change for me.

Started journal-ing yesterday and recording food and exercise. That should be an eye opener!

Hobbies: quilting and sewing.

Hi there. Welcome and let me offer to be a support buddy - send me a Private Message when you want any specific advice. I'm 54, live in a more rural area and am a quilter also but I do have access to a major city and support and it makes a difference. Stay in touch with your surgeon and keep working it a day at a time.

One statement someone made to me is "just because you can eat still a certain food or quantity, doesn't mean its right. Are you committed to what you did?" boy that hit home and I realized self discipline was still going to be a part of my life for the rest of my life but the tool in my lapband helps big time. Hang in there! You will be successful if you stay committed.

I've lost 140 lbs and the last 60 lbs is coming off very slowly but I am not going back - EVER!