My name is Jenn and I'm very new to all of this. I am attending a seminar on Tuesday to get the ball rolling. I am really excited to start this journey as it seems life changing but at the same time selfish. As I start this, I'm very worried about other people, my friends, coworkers, and family, judging me. I work at the hospital I will be having the surgery at so it puts my in a tough spot. Just looking for some advice and thoughts as I start my journey. Thanks!

Hi Jenn,

I too work in the hospital where I will be having my surgery; I know many people who work there that have also had the surgery. I have come to the conculision that I cannot be afraid of what anyone might think of me for having the surgery. I feel that it is right for me, I have the support from my friends and most of all my family. I am not sure how big your hospital is where you work, but you might see if there is anyone there that has had this done and look to them for support. Also, if there is a support group offered I would suggest you attend and see if one of your friends or family members would go with you. I will be having surgery on Aug 5th, but know many people that have had this done already and see how this has changed their lives for the better. I am curious, as to why you said you felt selfish for having this done, why is that? May I ask?

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I have met a fee people that have had it done, all with good results. My hospital is small, only about 250 beds, so everyone knows everyone! And congrats! You must be very excited. I am still afraid to involve my friends and my family other than my mom, who is very supportive. Selfish propably isn't the correct word. Although I still have my doubts, I need to do this for myself. It is something I want... But my health is at risk. There's a lot to think about and I appreciate you're response!!